The Internet is great. It lets you shop, it lets you find info, and now, it even lets you find a date. Of course it is much different from the traditional way, but it is certainly more convenient. There are tons of services, like FriendFinder, which have tons of members, so finding somebody with similar interests is a snap.

However, when dating online, you need to make sure you are safe. If you meet somebody on FriendFinder, and have only IMed/PMed them, you cannot be sure that person is safe. However, if you follow these guidelines, you can have a great online date.

First, you should always make the arrangements to meet your date. Don’t let your date pick you up at home or know your home address. This applies to both the first date and subsequent dates if you’re unsure of your interest in the person. You should also only give out your cell phone number, and not your home landline number which can be traced to your address. Don’t worry about anyone taking offense; this is your personal safety at stake and be very firm about this.

Next, you should always meet in a public place with large groups of people nearby. A concert, cafe, or a movie would be safe choices. Never meet in a secluded area or travel to one while on your first date. If possible, try to arrange to bring friends along as a double date. This may seem awkward on a first date but it’s important if you want stay safe in the online dating scene.

Another important safety tip is to avoid alcohol on your first date. You don’t want your judgement to be impaired or to let your guard down. If you do drink, however, keep your alcohol consumption to a minimum and always keep sight of your glass.

On a first date, it’s always a good idea to go dutch and pay your half of the bill. Doing so will not make your date feel that you’re obligated to have a second date in the event you aren’t interested. Don’t worry about offending and stand your ground.

Also, tell a friend where you are going with your date, and when you will be back. Have the friend call you to make sure you arrived home safely. Also, you could end your date by meeting up with friends.

And last but not least, trust your judgment. If something doesn’t feel right, then it probably isn’t. If you feel uneasy with the person, don’t be afraid of ending your date early. Even though you may have talked with the person a lot by email, sometimes you can only pick up that something is not right with that person when you talk to him/her in person. If you use your judgment and common sense, you will have a great date!