A new romance for a divorcee can be a scary thing.

Being a single divorcee has it’s up and it’s downs when someone is ready to settle down with a new partner.

There are lots to consider from a single divorcee’s point of view, and from a potential partner to a divorcee.

However, this article is about single divorcees staying single, or not, and the scenario of meeting a possible new partner.

Let’s assume you have been chatting to someone that you are pretty sure really likes you, and even though nothing is set in stone, maybe there’s love the air.

There is a simple way to determine whether you are being romantically targeted. Or, on the other hand, things you can do to help get your message across to your romantically chosen one.

Body language. Pure and simple.

There is no hard and fast rule when it comes to body language because every one is different. In fact you maybe missing out on signs that someone is sending you, because you are not clear what signs to look for. But don’t worry, single divorcees generally forget how to be in the dating game again, and it can take a while to re-find your feet, as it were.

When you are talking to someone that you think you are getting along with, how close do they stand to you? Within an arm’s reach is a good indicator that you are becoming the centre of someone’s attract.

On the flip side if they are less than an arm’s length is a good indicator that they feel good about you. You maybe talking to the person and as you make a point touch them on their arm or shoulder. If they stay within arms length or move slightly closer, than you can pretty much tell they have some interest in you.

There is of course a tendency to look directly at a person when you find them interesting, and of course it works the other way too. The other person may like you but might not feel confident enough to come right out and tell you. If they are looking away but seem to be comfortable standing within an arm’s length , than you may want to pursue your attempt to make a connection. Be subtle and move cautiously.

There are many other indicators you can use to determine if the other person has an interest in you but standing in your space (comfortably) and the eyes are always good signposts to go by. Verbally expressing feelings is not easy for many people but that does not mean they have no interest in you. More than anything it means you must always stay alert to picking up the body language signals that indicate there is a potential connection in the making. Then maybe you as a single divorcee will cease to be a single divorcee.